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Bijoux Indiscrets
Massage candle
Massage Candle Slow Sex 50 g
A compact massage candle with natural oils and shea butter, made to burn slowly. The name is the programme.
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View at bol ↗ - Type
- Massage candle
- Weight
- 50 g
- Base
- Natural oils and shea butter
- Burning
- Slower than a regular candle (brand)
- Use
- On someone else, on yourself or in the bath
- Formula
- Free of chemicals, says the brand
02Why Slow Sex?
Slow Sex is a thought for anyone not racing to the finish line. The candle fits: according to the brand it burns slower than a regular candle, so the oil stays at a pleasant temperature.
The idea behind Bijoux Indiscrets is to pay attention to what is happening rather than where you are heading. You can use the candle to massage a partner, to massage yourself, or just as a scent in the bath.
The formula is made of natural oils and shea butter. The brand calls them free of chemicals, a claim you may read as brand story. The full list is on the pack if you want to be sure.
At 50 grams this is the small candle, good for an evening or two. If you want more, a bigger one like the Massu is worth a look.
03Massage candle or massage oil?
Two ways to start a massage. A candle sets the mood straight away, an oil is ready the moment you open the cap.
| Type | How it works | Mood | Watch out | First time |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Massage candlethis one | Light it, let it melt and spread the warm oil | Flame, scent and soft light | Let it melt and test on your wrist first. Can stain fabric | A little patience while the wax melts |
| Massage oil | From the bottle to your hands, ready at once | Scent and glide, without a flame | Not every oil goes with condoms or toys. Read the pack | Ready at once, so the easiest start |
A general guide. Always read the pack of your own product.
This is for you if
- You want a candle that burns slowly and takes its time.
- You are looking for a small, compact size.
- You also want to use it for yourself or as a bath scent.
Skip it if
- You want a big candle that lasts for weeks.
- You do not feel like waiting.
- You want a fully documented ingredient list before buying. Read it on the pack.
04How to use it
Light it and wait
Let the wax melt for a while first. Put the candle on a sturdy, dry surface, away from curtains and paper.
Blow it out
Put the flame out before you use the wax. An open flame never belongs near your body.
Test on your wrist
Pour a little on your inner wrist. Too hot? Wait a little longer.
Spread it, slowly
Spread the warm oil in long, slow movements. That is what the candle is made for.
05Good to know
- Always test your wrist first, even with sensitive skin.
- Oil can stain fabric. Put a towel down.
- An open flame never belongs near your body. Do not leave the candle burning alone.
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